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Reader, Perhaps you are in a place where you realize no matter how much you add to your skills, titles, bank, closet, etc. You are still experiencing a void. You are having a hard time connecting with your loved ones because you cannot even connect to yourself. You look around at your connections, both professionally and personally, and see that there is an emptiness that you experience with them. You take a look at your career or job and realize that there is a level of comfort it gives you but you also experience that there is a risk of true fulfillment. You feel guilty every time you notice these things and talk yourself out of it. You tell yourself to be grateful and smile. However, you keep noticing this pattern for weeks, months, and even years. So much so that you feel like you are subject to these feelings now, you are stuck. You book a vacation, try a new workout routine, join a new gym/club, read a book, follow a TikTok self-care tip, and set up a new morning routine to have a better attitude at work and hopefully create a shift within you. They work for a week or two, but again... the thoughts of hopelessness creep back in. You know you need a change, but nothing you have done on the outside has worked. They have been nothing but distractions that just seem to drag these feelings on. You begin to think you need a radical change to really feel what you are desiring. You think of a career change, a big move, or a sabbatical often. However, you are so rooted in your current life that you feel like this type of change is impossible, just wishful thinking. What if instead of convincing yourself to make that radical decision... you try something different? What if the problem is not in what you are doing, who you connect with, and what you have, but rather what is within you? What if these thoughts are indicators of a deeper voice calling out for help? Not for you to change your life outwardly, but rather inwardly? What if that radical change comes as an add-on from already experiencing a fulfilling shift? What if the person who sent you this email can help? Reader, if this is you, you are not alone. Many are in this place. They have what they thought success would be, but once they arrived they experienced disillusionment instead. I have been there. Actually, coming to terms that this was me was what pivoted me to where I am now. I realized that even though I had all the things in order, I was missing the most important one. I was missing purpose. My soul was trapped in the realm of "checkmarks = success" and the more checkmarks I got, the more numb I felt. I literally felt like I was dying inside, even though there was no real danger outside. I went on a journey to understand deeper what purpose is and how to apply it in my life. This journey took about 4 years because I was a lost soul finding its way. On the way this lost soul selected guides that would last for a little while before I felt lost again. Then, I would start again. Reader, you don't have to go on a journey of 4 years. Within 6 months you can understand what purpose is for you, regardless if you make that radical change or not. My 6-Month Container will hold you through a process of self-discovery that will reflect a change in your internal and external circumstances. You will experience levels of sovereignty and clarity that you may have never had before. My mental and emotional mastery tools will have you take control of those doom-filled thoughts and grow in communication. My body-focused methods will elevate the way you experience your 5 senses. And most importantly you will understand what your definition of success is. Not because society told you, but because you will begin to experience it. If you are thinking of giving this transformation a try, click here to apply. It might as well be one of the most important decisions you have ever made. I am here if you have any questions. All in service, Nicole 🕊️ |
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